Become A High Value Man | Jonnie Jensen
Going through a divorce or break up? As a Dad, this can feel like the end of everything you’ve worked hard to build—your relationship, your family, your home. It’s tough, but not the end.
At High Value Man, we’ve been there. Drained from marriages that didn’t last, bruised from custody battles, and every challenge in between. This isn’t the end for you; it’s a fresh start to rebuild stronger, happier, and more successful than ever.
Transitioning from married life to single dad life has its challenges but you would not be reading this if you are not a committed loving dad. That is your baseline.
Being a divorced single dad is different but it’s better than trying to be the dad you want to be inside a broken relationship.
Securing 50/50 contact is likely your goal but assuming that can or has been achieved the life you want starts here. You will have more focused time with them. It will be on your terms.
Being the dad you want to be, creating a new family home and making wonderful memories with your children.
Imagine thriving during the time your children are not with you. Many single dads drag themselves down by focusing negatively on the time they are not with their children. Whilst this is hard at the start (it was for me too) it becomes a brilliant alternative to being a traditional Dad.
You get to be 100% for your children when they are with you AND 100% for yourself when they are not with you. It is actually pretty great.
From hobbies, to work, to finding a new relationship there is zero point moping around when you do not have your children. The quicker you rebuild your life the better. A High Value Man uses this time to enjoy life, to create more success and to become a better version of himself.
After all, that is what your children want to see.
The High Value Man Project is a blueprint for living the life they desire, not one you feel stuck in. HVM has many divorced and single dads within its ranks. It is a measure of men being committed to having it all for themselves and of course their children.
The principles of the High Value Man lifestyle follow 4 key areas of life. Pillars which your single dad rebuild will be be based upon. As I rebuilt my own life after divorce I realised how I should have been living like this from the start. You will learn new strategies and habits for mastering your life.
Plus you get the power of the shared experiences from other men who have walked the path ahead of you already.
Your mindset, your knowledge, your fitness, diet and sleep. Putting you first so you can be more for others.
Your money and business. Financial security brings you freedom.
Your connection to your wife, children, family and friends, mentors and network.
Your fun, adventure and peace. What is the point of life if you are not enjoying the hell out of it.